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Advice: Sex with a Friend...Harmless fun, or Baaaad Idea?
Need input...before, say, 5 PM EST...
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August 15, 2002, 16:17
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The one and only reason is fun fun fun, i say well baby, we've only just began, So Don't talk just Kisssss let your tounge fool arounddd..
Yep. Go ahead man! Just keep the wisdom above in your mind.
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August 15, 2002, 16:18
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I think bad idea
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August 15, 2002, 16:23
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Well, not to be graphic, but it wouldn't be the hardcore, all-the-way kinda sex, if you know what I mean.
Anyway, he's not a good friend, but rather someone I've known for 2-3 years now. He will be in town today and I'm meeting him for drinks after work. He REALLY wants to fool around, and I've been resisting under the old "friends shouldn't do that" notion.
But why shouldn't they? And I am sorely tempted... 
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August 15, 2002, 16:26
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If he's not a very good friend, then buggerall. Sex has the possibility of messing up a close friendship, but it doesn't have that same chance with a distant friendship so long as both parties have the intention of keeping the friendship distant. (If one party wants to keep the friendship distant while the other falls in love, well then everything gets shot to hell.)
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August 15, 2002, 16:26
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We are telling you to do it. If I ever had the chance to have sex with some old friends (women), I'd be there already doing it. So go ahead. No-Holds-Barred Sex!
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August 15, 2002, 16:27
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I really think that sex should only be in a loving commited relationship
so I would recommend getting into one of those (and if you are in one of those, don't cheat!)
if you don't feel anything for him at all I would recommend doing nothing, if you do feel something for him, then feel free to persue it whereever it takes you
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August 15, 2002, 16:28
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Loinburger, that's what I'm afraid of, actually. I'm worried he might like me a lot more than just as friends, and if we have sex it will lead him on into thinking more is possible.
I wouldn't mind fooling around with him, but I have no desire whatsoever to date him.
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August 15, 2002, 16:29
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JM, I can respect that, but since I am fairly often having sex outside of a committed relationship, that's really a moot point.
It's really the issue of mucking up a friendship.
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then I would say baad idea
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August 15, 2002, 16:33
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I would think that having sex with a freind and someone who is not a freind would be somewhat equal
you know more about your freind, but you can also screw up the friendship
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August 15, 2002, 16:35
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Make it clear to him that you don't do long distance relationships sometime during the first drink. Once he has that clear in his mind, then do whatever comes naturally. As long asyour sure he has that clear in his mind. Hell, he too may be "up" for it even knowing that no long term prospects exist.
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Boris, if you want to have sex with this guy make damn sure you tell it like it is, so you avoid any hurt feelings and stuff. If youīre both OK with it I say go for it. I would... Though in my sex starved state Iīd basically **** anything on two legs...
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Kamrat, you can send me your pic at...
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Easy there, big boy...
And my pic is in the pic thread in the A/C forum...
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If you think you are sex starved Kamrat... take a look at me.... 
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Lets face it. We flamiing queers have more appeal then Pat Robertson and other religious wackos. We have shows that are really growing in popularity. We have more channels (Q TV, Logo Channel). And we help people in their style issues (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). The last thing I saw a religious preacher did was ask for $5 in a "generous pledge" to help his bank account in Zurich, erhm, some starving kids in Zimbabwe.
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I bet Iīve been without longer
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August 15, 2002, 16:54
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Is it too late to tell you youre a filthy slut?
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August 15, 2002, 16:55
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Originally posted by Kamrat X
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Haha... probably... but I am 18, a male and a virgin... you can sum that up very fast...
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Lets face it. We flamiing queers have more appeal then Pat Robertson and other religious wackos. We have shows that are really growing in popularity. We have more channels (Q TV, Logo Channel). And we help people in their style issues (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). The last thing I saw a religious preacher did was ask for $5 in a "generous pledge" to help his bank account in Zurich, erhm, some starving kids in Zimbabwe.
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August 15, 2002, 16:57
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Originally posted by Caligastia
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My good will towards you is on thin ice after reading the counterglow continuation of the Asher-SS brawl. 
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August 15, 2002, 16:58
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ANYhoo, I'm off...we'll see what transpires!
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Haha... probably... but I am 18, a male and a virgin... you can sum that up very fast...
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Ouch! I remember how that was like
Boris, good luck  
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Dont get scared if somthing goes *bump* in the night. Its just boris and his friend
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Shouldnīt that be 'go hump in the night'?
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If Boris was still here I would say go for it certainly.....
Kamrat - 
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Lets face it. We flamiing queers have more appeal then Pat Robertson and other religious wackos. We have shows that are really growing in popularity. We have more channels (Q TV, Logo Channel). And we help people in their style issues (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). The last thing I saw a religious preacher did was ask for $5 in a "generous pledge" to help his bank account in Zurich, erhm, some starving kids in Zimbabwe.
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Well, hopefully it works out for the best.
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Damn, Kamrat!!!
Don't you know any liberal socialist chics? I'm not saying the're sluts but they are easy
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Friendship + sex = Really bad idea
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August 15, 2002, 18:49
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friendship+sex-- can be a very good idea as long as it's clear beforehand that it's just sex, etc. Some of my funnest sexual experiences were with good friends of mine.
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August 15, 2002, 18:58
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Originally posted by Boris Godunov
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Jeez! Cant take a joke eh? You dont understand how things work at CG, and neither does Asher. Dont take what is said there seriously.
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