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View Poll Results: Is viewing pornography a form of cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?
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Yes it is
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looking lustfully at bananas is cheating
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July 24, 2003, 03:35
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Is viewing pornography cheating on your girlfriend/boyfriend?
I had heard something today by someone who said that viewing pornography is wrong if you are married, or seriously involved with someone.
In a way that is partially true. You are having feelings towards someone else you should be having towards your wife.
though I can't say I agree. but I have never been married, so I can't say for sure.
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July 24, 2003, 03:41
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I've heard some girls even consider a guy to be unfaithful if he rubs on out by himself every now and then. Isn't that a little insecure? I guy can slack his lizard and still love his wife.
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July 24, 2003, 03:42
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depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out
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July 24, 2003, 03:46
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WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.
Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)
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July 24, 2003, 03:53
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There's a street in London, called St.Swithins lane, isn't there? A few blocks away from Bank tube station?
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July 24, 2003, 03:55
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Originally posted by st_swithin
WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.
Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)
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I hate that. My wife does that all the time. She must think I'm brain dead, since there's nothing going on. What am I supposed to say, I was thinking about the baseball scores while she's talking to me? Please.
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July 24, 2003, 03:55
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If I caught my bf in bed with another guy.. yeah it would be cheating.. I don't have a problem with porn.. honestly, me and my bf used to trade one or two pics...
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Lets face it. We flamiing queers have more appeal then Pat Robertson and other religious wackos. We have shows that are really growing in popularity. We have more channels (Q TV, Logo Channel). And we help people in their style issues (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). The last thing I saw a religious preacher did was ask for $5 in a "generous pledge" to help his bank account in Zurich, erhm, some starving kids in Zimbabwe.
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July 24, 2003, 03:57
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Yeah, depends on the situation. If you watch porn with your mate then no problem. But sneaking around can get you in trouble.
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July 24, 2003, 03:57
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Originally posted by st_swithin
WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.
Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)
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It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.
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July 24, 2003, 03:58
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Originally posted by Dissident
depends on who he is thinking about when he rubs one out
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Why would it matter? It's a fantasy it's not real. How can something which is not real constitute a real transgration?
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July 24, 2003, 04:03
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Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching? 
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July 24, 2003, 04:04
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well in fact porn helps a little when I had sex with my mate... he and I took some ideas.. lol..
Never mind! Why am I talking about this....
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Lets face it. We flamiing queers have more appeal then Pat Robertson and other religious wackos. We have shows that are really growing in popularity. We have more channels (Q TV, Logo Channel). And we help people in their style issues (Queer Eye for the Straight Guy). The last thing I saw a religious preacher did was ask for $5 in a "generous pledge" to help his bank account in Zurich, erhm, some starving kids in Zimbabwe.
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July 24, 2003, 04:06
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Well your fantasy is having sex with that other girl. Maybe you would go one step ahead when there is oppertunity and noone watching?
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Have you seen the guys who post here? This isn't an option for the vast majority.
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July 24, 2003, 04:07
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July 24, 2003, 05:35
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So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?
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July 24, 2003, 05:36
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So then, what's viewing porn with your wife? Swinging?
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I hope so. Makes a menage-a-trois an achievable goal for me. 
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July 24, 2003, 05:50
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Originally posted by st_swithin WhatEVER. The most annoying thing in the entire WORLD is to have your spouse/partner/sigOtr keep asking "What are you thinking?" every time there's a lull in the conversaton.
Particularly when 'Nothing' is NOT an acceptable response. (I mean, what the he11 else am I supposed to say, especially when it's the TRUTH?!?)
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I would say nothing but the truth there normally is something like, "oh well, run out of stuff to say might as well have sex."
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July 24, 2003, 05:58
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It's even more distracting when you are masturbating to pornography.
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July 24, 2003, 06:35
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Wieving porn isn't cheating.
Just like thinking about work-related issues during a holiday isn't illegal.
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July 24, 2003, 06:36
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It should be.
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July 24, 2003, 10:17
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Dating Rosey Palm and her 5 sisters is with-holding from your girlfriend.
You're a cheater. 
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July 24, 2003, 10:21
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July 24, 2003, 10:25
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first vote for yes!!
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July 24, 2003, 10:31
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Really?
Would whoever voted yes like to defend themselves?
For instance, is it cheating to check out clothed people if you are in a relationship? (something which we all do naturally all the time, there's science to back it up. If so, what's the difference?
What about if they are wearing revealing clothing?
What about if it's a picture that just barely scrapes into what you are allowed to show on 'poly?
Just a bit of nipple OK/not OK?
Is it OK to look as long as you don't touch (yourself)?
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July 24, 2003, 10:33
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pornography is different than checking out cute girls (clothed or naked)
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July 24, 2003, 10:35
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You don't consider naked girls porn?
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July 24, 2003, 10:36
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I don't know if it would be cheating or not
but I wouldn't do it
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July 24, 2003, 10:38
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You don't consider naked girls porn?
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they can be
they don't have to be
(same as clothed girls)
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July 24, 2003, 10:39
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You wouldn't look or you wouldn't kill a kitten whilst looking?
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July 24, 2003, 10:39
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I think pornography can save relationships. It gives you a chance to "be" with someone else without actually cheating. Some people have an obsession with strange and this is a good way to get the demons out.
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